After your senior loved one is diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease, you will likely have a lot of questions about the future. Will she begin to lose cognitive abilities immediately? Will you need to worry about a nursing home in the near future? How will you be able to provide in-home care and still hold down a job? These are just a small sampling of some common questions family members and friends have post diagnosis.
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While most of those questions stem from issues that your senior loved one will not face in the immediate future, driving is quite another issue. If a senior is used to living independently and driving on a daily basis, the potential loss of this freedom can be extremely upsetting. That’s why it’s so important to dive into a discussion sooner than later.
When facing the loss of driving privileges, it’s important that you think about your senior loved one’s feelings. You also must think about her safety and the safety of other motorists and pedestrians. Before jumping into the conversation with your loved one, it’s essential to formulate a plan and decide what you want to communicate.
As you begin speaking with a senior, you should:
If you’re lucky, the conversation will go perfectly and your loved one will agree to stop driving alone. However, most seniors are not willing to let go of their independence without a fight, so this may be difficult.
If the conversation turns volatile or your loved one bursts out in anger, remember that memory and insight loss plays a huge role in Alzheimer’s disease and likely drive a lot of the hostility toward you. Don’t take it personally and resolve to have the conversation again in a couple days.
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